I never fantasy while love. I use fantasies to masturbate
I never fantasy while love. I use fantasies to masturbate, to turn on my lover, or make an otherwise dull moment an interesting one. I always fantasize before and during masturbation. When I am fucking a partner, I place my full concentration on her satisfaction. The last thing I need during intercourse is more stimulation, so I never fantasize about sex while fucking. I have to control myself to her desires, so if I think of anything, I think of dull subjects to slow myself down. My feeling is that a fantasy during sex would be an intrusion.
The simple erotic curiosity and pleasure of the three-year-old has changed and begun to run on separate and sexually defined tracks, but what the young boy and girl have in common are feelings of shame and anxiety.
April 10 2008 05:45 pm | Masturbation / Squirting